The Weekender // 034
A fine jewelry sample sale, a new caffeine addiction, personality pants & so much more.
Welcome to THE WEEKENDER, your weekly dispatch full of ~Saturday spirit~! I fill you in briefly on the week, share a few Little Luxuries that make the mundane feel special and save the best for last with some Brain Food to mull over, expand your horizons, or discuss with your friends over a cappuccino. There are usually lots of links and pictures which perhaps will get clipped if you’re reading in your inbox— click here to read in browser!
Happy Saturday! Is anyone else really missing LETTUCE!?! Here I was thinking I didn’t eat enough vegetables, but BOY, you really realize how much lettuce you consume when it exits the picture…
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Small wins from my week:
When my mid-day slump hit Wednesday and my eyes started to fry from staring at a screen all day, I skipped the second coffee and instead went for a mid-day bike ride on the boardwalk. It had such an outsized impact on my mood!
I got to catch up with a dear friend who has a knack for refilling my cup and getting me into my most creative and confident headspace. ❤️🩹
I have a liiiiittle back and shoulder injury, so I treated myself to a 90 minute massage, which I think could probably cure nearly any ailment. Already thinking about when I can do it again…
Let’s get into some fun weekend fluff, shall we?
My friend Ali Kriegsman introduced me to new-to-me brand Ama, a green coffee, Amanita & L-Theanine tonic. If anyone has legs to stand on when it comes to discussing caffeine, it’s Ali-- she accomplishes an utterly insane amount in a week, so I was intrigued. I drank mine on ice with soda water and it gave me sort of a calm energy buzz similar to how I feel when I drink matcha! Nice for when I don’t want to have a milky coffee on a hot summer afternoon.
I love the bandana print trend and decided I’d really like to see it on a pair of loose, summery pants. I had the hardest time finding what I envisioned, but these 100% cotton smocked shorts from The Great are pretty great!
Speaking of fun pants— I love these (very wearable and comfortable seeming!) pink personality pants! I might have to do it…
The mermaid waves I rocked for my wedding were my favorite hairstyle ever. Not precious, equal parts Wuthering Heights and mermaid just emerged from the sea. I finally got my hands on a crimper that makes fast work of the look, even for someone who is not “good” at doing her hair! I use the 1” one and this brand also makes my hair straightener, so I trust their quality from experience. Now please invite me over, so I have more excuses to crimp.
Who knows if this excites you, but fine jeweler Ariel Gordon is having a sample sale through July 27th… the price of gold is stupid high right now, so while not remarkably cheap, I thought some of it was reasonably intriguing. (This $200-something solid gold stacking ring, for example.)
Interesting art discovery of the week, “A Devout Nun” by Joyce Lee. Very pleasing. The nun kind of has Instagram face though, no? I guess that might be the point.
I published two other letters this week, ICYMI: one on scarcity mindset and my ongoing struggle to write a book, and the other— notably lighter!— four great Etsy finds.
I have two summer songs on repeat, both oldies but goodies. Summerboy by Lady Gaga and Vacation by Connie Francis! Give ‘em a whirl, I promise they prevent bad moods.
Well, this was an instant-click for me: novelist Elin Hilderbrand on the distinct joys of an American summer.
I will stop and giggle at every Trojan Horse joke I see in the wake of The Odyssey. I really want to see it but it’s a long shlep to the theater from where I live and with the 3 hour run time, it’s easily a 4+ hour mission. If you saw it in theaters, was it worth it? (I am pretty sure it must be!)








It’s most definitely worth it to see it in the theater. A small screen could never do this film justice!